Astrology, Women and Eating Issues
In astrology, the Moon is one of the most complex planets. It
represents a vast number of areas of our lives. The Moon is our relationships with women
(especially with our mother), our childhood, our emotions, our personal rituals, our
subconscious minds, habits, and our ability to nurture ourselves and others. The Moon is
also our need for security -- physically, financially and emotionally.
Over many years as an astrologer, I have come to see the Moon in a
woman's chart as an indicator of how they process emotional stress. It is also
gives clues into their relationship with food, body image and negative self-talk. The Moon is
not necessarily negative, but it is cyclical, like the ongoing phases of the Earth's
Moon. It shows how we unconsciously repeat the same patterns of thoughts and behaviors.
To illustrate, the Moon in our chart is similar to the Moon in the
sky. The Earth's Moon has no weather, wind or erosion. If a meteor hits the surface, the
impact crater basically remains unchanged forever. So it is with our subconscious
mind. We become emotionally wounded and it is recorded in the recesses of our memory.
We may forget when and why it happened, or even what the event was (as with repressed
memories), yet we will react to the pain of the event in times of stress. It can be difficult to break patterns that are so comforting and familiar, even if they no longer serve us -- the Moon seeks security. Remember there is a dark side of the Moon. This represents the hidden nature of the workings of our psyche. It is not easy to understand our depths. We need courage to plumb the secrets of our internal space, like a space probe exploring the other side of the Moon.
The Moon rules women, food and deep subconscious patterns. I find the
manner in which women nurture or harm themselves with food is revealed by the
other planets in the chart that contact the Moon and the way in which those planets
communicate with each other. For instance, the Moon in a challenging connection with
Saturn, the planet of restriction, may be expressed as anorexia. The Moon combined with
Jupiter, the planet of excess, can cause severe overeating. Pluto, the planet of deep power
and rage often contacts the Moon in the charts of bulimic girls and women.
In order to heal eating issues we need to incorporate the planet that
contacts the Moon sign. A Moon-Saturn woman may need a positive system around food,
or a healthy structured food plan to replace the harmful restrictive habits.
The Moon-Jupiter person would need to honor her need to moderately indulge on occasion.
The Moon-Pluto woman will need to express challenging emotions before mealtime,
either though verbal communication or physical activity. The point is that we cannot wrench the Moon away from the planets in the chart that communicate with it. These are important life lessons that will not go away by ignoring or suppressing them. At the same time, repeating the negative cycle over and over with no awareness will not bring peace, either.
We must be gentle with our Moon. It doesn't know what to do but repeat behaviors. The Moon is not linear, and neither are our subconscious habits or our relationship with food. We heal in an upward spiral, so sometimes the scenery looks the same, but we are actually viewing it from a higher perspective. As we heal our Moon/eating issues, we aim to discover the root of the pattern. The root will be revealed in layers. Each cycle may bring an opportunity for deeper insights, yet may be heralded by a temptation to slip into old behaviors.
The Moon tends to panic when its coping rituals are altered. As you
heal, seek
out soothing friends or a counselor who knows your cycles and will have
compassion.
This does not mean you will be stuck forever or need people to condone
self-abusive
eating behavior. The Moon needs guidance and must be consistently
trained in
developing new patters. Yet, our subconscious depth is unknowable in
many ways. We
can never "conquer" it with our minds. If an old pattern re-emerges, we
can reaffirm the
new pattern as soon as possible. There is a balance between respecting
the lesson the old
pattern is trying to teach us and getting embroiled in the negative
behavior.
It takes patience and gentle dedication to create new ways to nurture
ourselves on
"automatic pilot" when we are under stress. Where our emotions are
concerned
repetitive cycles are inevitable. The question is not how to stop eating
patterns, but how
to redirect the energy in order to form a routine of balanced eating.
It has often been said that the human brain is the most complex and
wondrous
computer in existence. All man-made technology must defer to the
superiority of this
amazing organ. It is also common to hear that we utilize a very small
percentage of our
brain's power. I would like to suggest that exploration of this
uncharted territory within
our own heads is the most valuable technological advance that will
happen in the next
millennium.
Our brain records every thought, emotion, activity and event in our
life. The brain does not only contain information regarding this lifetime, but for
every event from every lifetime that our soul has experienced. As we learn to access and
utilize more facets of our mind, we experience less limitation and a greater sense of
belonging to the world as a whole. Our personal brain becomes linked in with the Divine
Brain, or with Divine Mind as our conscious awareness expands.
Spiritual Masters, such as the Buddha or Jesus, have made that great
leap in thought to become one with the Divine Mind. Perhaps this also means
these great Teachers are using more of the physical brain than the average person.
There is an intriguing link between mysticism and science at this point. We know
there is so much unaccessed portions of our brain, and we observe that every once in a
while, a human makes a great leap in thinking and appears to become "superhuman".
In the new millennium, this could be the destiny for all of us.
Because we each have a brain full of vast unused resources, we each have the ability to
be "psychic" or "intuitive". We can all reach nirvana or live in continual bliss. It
is the birthright for us all to feel harmony with all life and with the Spirit behind all life.
The question is, how to begin the process?
One major step must be to refuse all concepts of limitation. Truly,
limitations are manifestations based upon habitual thought patterns. Thought patterns
can be broken. Powerful new ideas can take root in your mind. It is important to gain
the support of like-minded people, since most folks may be frightened by the changes
you wish to make and may hold you back. You may even want to release some relationships
that do not serve you anymore.
Another step to opening your consciousness is forgiveness. Begin with
yourself. You have made most of your choices and lived the majority of your life
under the illusion of limited possibilities. Forgive yourself for destructive patterns of
thinking and behaving. Forgive yourself for poor relationship or career choices.
Also forgive the people in your life, for they live under the veil of limitation as
well. Of course, this does not mean you should condone or tolerate abusive situations, yet to
"unglue" yourself, forgiveness is an helpful tool for freedom and for releasing resentment.
These first two suggestions are meant to "weed the garden" of your mind, and of
your consciousness. The next phase is to fertilize the soil of your brain. It is at this
juncture that meditation or relaxation techniques are essential. In
this way, we can bring a higher gradient of thought into our minds -- just as we mix higher
quality soil to enhance a garden. Meditation may consist of sitting and chanting, or
walking in the woods, or watching a flower swaying in the summer breeze, or practicing
yoga. Each person must find a way in which to soothe their clamoring mind and
create a bridge for more peaceful thoughts and sensations to enter in.
The maintenance of our "millennial garden" is an on-going process. We
must weed regularly, uprooting thoughts of negativity and limitation, and by
forgiving our shortcomings along with those of others. We continue to fertilize our
soil with meditation/relaxation, making sure the baby seedlings of powerful
thoughts have adequate nourishment.
The final action in awakening the potential of our higher millennial
consciousness in non-action. We must have patience in the process of our unfoldment.
This is where we have faith and await the Grace of God, or, if you prefer, wait for
our karma to begin moving in the new direction in which we have steered it. The only
action that is possible now is to water the "garden" with earnest desire for growth, and sincere
devotion to the process of expanding your soul.
If we can conquer fear and limitation within our own mind, we will have the most
powerful piece of technology at our service, which is an enlightened brain. Spiritual
Masters have known this "simple secret" for ages, and have attempted to teach it to their
followers. The exciting part of the new millennium is that we are moving into a time
when more people will be acting upon this empowering information, and not merely
honoring those who have made the leap into expanded, unitive consciousness. When
people were in awe of Jesus, he declared, "Greater works than these you shall do". He
meant that each one of us holds the seeds of greatness within ourselves. The new
millennium is the time when we can become Masters of our own inner machinery and
work in harmony with the Divine Brain of the Cosmos.
Recently, a friend and I were sightseeing in western Kansas and
visited a cathedral. We were alone in the large church, since it was a quiet
Monday afternoon. I was enjoying the stained glass when I realized my friend had
disappeared. I looked all around, but couldn't find him. I called out to him, questioningly.
To my surprise, he stepped out of the priest's side of the confessional booth. He
smiled and said, "I'm working on forgiving God, so I thought I'd give Him a chance to
confess to me!"
Many people involved in the New Age or recovery movement cringe
when they hear the word God. Assumptions assail their mind. Negative
memories swarm and old disappointments are brought to the surface. Recovery from addiction
often centers around surrendering to and building a relationship with God. This
is a touchy situation since most addictive people are angry at God. Their childhood
concepts of the Divine let them down, or they felt abandoned and betrayed by God since hurtful
situations kept hurting. Traditional Judeo-Christian religions are often viewed as
unappealing at best, and hypocritical, abusive and poisonous at worst.
Many people solve this problem by adopting an alternative concept
of the Divine. Some people say Spirit, Goddess, All That Is, Great Mystery, Higher
Power. Other people may embrace a different traditional religion that seems more
holistic and helpful, like buddhism, a Native American tradition or nature-centered
Paganism. This solution can be a wonderful beginning in creating a comfortable and loving
relationship with the Divine. However, in the recovery process of 12 step groups, a person must
comb through her past and examine everything that is hiding in the furthermost
reaches of her consciousness. In a similar way, each person will eventually reach
a point when the painful resentments of her childhood or societal God must be
confronted, forgiven and released.
Ask yourself what you feel or think when you hear the word God. Say it
to yourself, silently or aloud a number of times. Does you feel loved
and soothed? Do you feel anxious? Angry? Insignificant and hopeless? Maybe you feel
so disgusted that you don't even want to read the remainder of this article. It is a
challenging task to explore this relationship, yet it is a challenge that will reward you with a
wholeness you can only dream of.
Truly, we are not actually forgiving God, as much as we are forgiving
our limited concept of God -- and we are forgiving many generations of people
who have fueled a dogmatic theology that many see as stifling, barren, out-moded,
intimidating, or destructive. It is a wonderful revelation to understand that God
never hurt us at all. Rather, it is false ideas of God that injures (as well as people who
are locked into these limited beliefs of God).
After we release the images and memories of God that have turned
into demons in the recesses of our minds, our consciousness can expand to
embrace and become one with a larger idea of the Divine. Our alternate words for the
Divine may take on new meaning. We no longer talk about the Goddess -- we live in Her! We
practice Zen meditation in the morning and retain a focused, quiet mind all day.
We don't merely think about the Spirit of the Universe, but see It shining in the
faces of everyone we meet.
The biggest surprise may be that the old, frightening concept of
God turns out to be a new spiritual Friend. We may find a gift hidden in the mud of
our childhood religion that we had overlooked -- a song, an icon, a ceremony. At
the very least, we may have a peaceful truce that helps us feel relieved. Then we can
continue our exploration of the Divine knowing our past relationship with It has been addressed
clearly and honestly.
Most people become addicted to drugs, alcohol, food, sex, work,
etc. because they are seeking an escape from everyday consciousness. The addict
is searching for blissful oblivion, a forgetfulness of self. And that is a sacred
search. In recovery, the addict continues along that holy path, but replaces the addictive
substance or activity with the source of all bliss -- a Higher Power as one understands
that Power.
We each must find a face of the Divine that supplies the form of
bliss that speaks directly to our own heart. We can choose to turn away from faces of
the Divine that are no longer helpful. We can do that in a balanced way, without
blocking out those faces with fear or rage. Our resentments toward God can be released.
After all, the Divine loves each one of us, no matter what mode of being we may
be in. We are loved when we are addicted, or in recovery -- when we are
serene, or stressed. We may not yet be able to love each concept of the
Divine, but we can accept and tolerate each interpretation of God as a face that needn't
threaten us. Our minds and soul will be freer and richer as a result of this process. May the
Divine bless you on your journey to wholeness!
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